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		<title>Get Your Kids Off Welfare</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jan 2010 08:00:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[That headline above comes from a Dave Ramsey seminar where he referred to giving kids an allowance is like having them on welfare (giving them something for doing nothing). We&#8217;ve implemented Dave&#8217;s Commission System (with some of our own tweaks) and it seems work. Here&#8217;s what we do (it may<a href="http://www.mikeruman.com/01/26/get-your-kids-off-welfare/" rel="nofollow"><br /> Read More</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That headline above comes from a Dave Ramsey seminar where he referred to giving kids an allowance is like having them on welfare (giving them something for doing nothing).</p>
<p>We&#8217;ve implemented Dave&#8217;s Commission System (with some of our own tweaks) and it seems work.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s what we do (it may or may not work for you).</p>
<p>1. Each week we print off the chore list and post it on the fridge. (Here is a link to our <a href="http://www.mikeruman.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Chores-Template.doc">Chores Template</a>)</p>
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<td width="20%"><strong>MON<br />
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<td width="20%"><strong>TUE<br />
</strong></td>
<td width="20%"><strong>WED<br />
</strong></td>
<td width="20%"><strong>THUR<br />
</strong></td>
<td width="20%"><strong>FRI<br />
</strong></td>
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<td width="20%">Clean Room</td>
<td width="20%">Clear Table</td>
<td width="20%">Clean Room</td>
<td width="20%">Clear Table</td>
<td width="20%">Clean Room</td>
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<td width="20%">$1.00</td>
<td width="20%">$1.00</td>
<td width="20%">$1.00</td>
<td width="20%">$1.00</td>
<td width="20%">$1.00</td>
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<td width="20%">Cat Litter</td>
<td width="20%">Cat Litter</td>
<td width="20%">Cat Litter</td>
<td width="20%">Cat Litter</td>
<td width="20%">Cat Litter</td>
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<td width="20%">$.50</td>
<td width="20%">$.50</td>
<td width="20%">$.50</td>
<td width="20%">$.50</td>
<td width="20%">$.50</td>
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<p>2. Each chore is worth a dollar amount, some are worth more than others.<br />
3. If the child does the chore they earn that amount, if they don&#8217;t, they don&#8217;t.</p>
<p>Fairly simple, huh? We&#8217;ve come across a few problems with this system and added some tweaks.<br />
<strong><br />
Child doesn&#8217;t do certain chores.</strong></p>
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<li>We added BONUS CHORE &#8211; Sounds cool, right? The bonus chore works like this:
<ul>
<li>We take the grid and cut out all the chores (done or not done) and place them in a hat. Child then draws a chore.
<ul>
<li>If they DID the chore that week they can either:
<ol>
<li>Take a set dollar amount OR</li>
<li>Roll a dice and get less than the set dollar or double it. (most times they roll the dice)</li>
</ol>
</li>
<li>If they DIDN&#8217;T do the chore that week their pay isn&#8217;t affected at all. It&#8217;s a BONUS afterall.</li>
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</li>
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<p><strong>Child doesn&#8217;t do chores at all.</strong></p>
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<li>Limit TV, computer, or something else to completed chores.</li>
<li>We don&#8217;t allow the child to get on TV or computer until chores are done. They don&#8217;t have to do the chores, but they also don&#8217;t get the privilege of going on computer or TV.</li>
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<p>Is this a perfect system? No. But, it works for us. Will it work for you? Only you can answer that.</p>
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